Step By Step Guide To Deciding Whether To Stay Or Go

Are you facing a difficult decision about whether to stay in your current relationship or move on? If so, you're not alone. Many people struggle with this question at some point in their lives.

There is no easy answer to this question. The best decision for you will depend on your individual circumstances. However, there are some steps you can take to help you make the best decision for yourself.

Contemplating Divorce: A Step-by-Step Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go

by Susan Pease Gadoua

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1. Identify Your Needs

The first step to making a decision is to identify your needs. What are you looking for in a relationship? What are your deal-breakers? Once you know what you need, you can start to assess your current relationship.

2. Evaluate Your Relationship

Once you know what you need, you can start to evaluate your current relationship. How well does your partner meet your needs? Are there any areas where you are not happy? It is important to be honest with yourself about your relationship. If you are not happy, it is important to address the issues.

3. Talk to Your Partner

If you are not happy in your relationship, it is important to talk to your partner. Let them know how you are feeling and what you need. Be open and honest about your concerns. If your partner is willing to work on the relationship, it may be worth it to give it another chance.

4. Consider Your Options

If you have tried to work on your relationship and it has not improved, you may need to consider your options. You may decide to stay in the relationship, but you may also decide to move on. There is no right or wrong answer. The best decision for you will depend on your individual circumstances.

5. Make a Decision

Once you have considered your options, it is time to make a decision. This can be a difficult decision, but it is important to trust your gut. If you are not happy in your relationship, it is probably best to move on. However, if you believe that your relationship has the potential to improve, you may decide to stay.

6. Move On

If you have decided to move on, it is important to do so with grace. Let your partner know that you are no longer interested in being in a relationship with them. Be respectful of their feelings and give them time to grieve.

7. Find Support

If you are struggling to make a decision about whether to stay or go, it is important to seek support. Talk to a friend, family member, or therapist. They can provide you with support and guidance.

Deciding whether to stay or go is a difficult decision. However, by following these steps, you can make the best decision for yourself.

Additional Tips

Here are some additional tips that may help you make a decision:

• Trust your gut. If something feels wrong, it probably is.
• Don't be afraid to be alone. It is better to be alone than in a bad relationship.
• Seek professional help if you need it. A therapist can help you understand your needs and make the best decision for yourself.

Resources

Here are some resources that may be helpful:

• The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
• The National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE
• The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 1-800-799-SAFE
• The American Psychological Association: 1-800-374-2721

Contemplating Divorce: A Step-by-Step Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go

by Susan Pease Gadoua

4.3 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	1796 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	216 pages

FREE